They decided the car really is under warranty, and there is an engine on they way.  When Matt bought the car at Legacy Mazda 2.5 years ago, they didn't do whatever was necessary to transfer the warranty to his name.  We stopped by the dealership the other night,but the guy to do that wasn't there.  Yesterday, Matt got to the dealership and got it put in his name so they can do the work.  Hopefully that engine gets here soon!

The last post was #100 - and I totally didn't acknowledge that milestone!  So here's to 101 posts! Woot! lol

Car dead.

Due to the weather (stupid rain and cold), we didn't do the couple activities I had for outside.  And the one thing I had for indoors didn't get finished because I had to go into work on Saturday.  Thanks to that fact and that I still had to stop at some stores to pick things up, I was running late!  I got to Caleen's about 4:30 probably.  Fortunately, our family has a tendency to run late too :)

So once I got to Caleen's and hauled all of my stuff in, I got started on the soup.  Now I'd just like to note that I do NOT cook.  Matt is the cook in our house.  I bake if anything - and I've done limited easy things from scratch, and I can do things in boxes.  I have generally felt I could probably follow a recipe, but never took the time and effort to prepare and follow through.  Being a picky eater my whole life didn't really help the cause, either.  However! I was in search of festive foods for a main dish and a punch - thank you Taste of Home.

I made this delicious pumpkin soup.  A lot of people were like, "I've never had pumpkin soup before," and I'd reply, "Neither have I!"  However, it turned out really well.  Lots of compliments.  Even my littler cousins enjoyed it.  Since I was busy making soup, Grandma made the punch for me.  It's supposed to be slushy, but we didn't have time to freeze it.  It was yummy all the same. 

So we had dinner - my cousins made adorable festive desserts.  The BYU game was on in the other room.  Gestures was played in the kitchen.  And I was not the only one to dress up :) I was beginning to wonder at first, but the beardalls were nicely decked out :)  In all the hustle and bustle, I didn't grab my camera.  Then when I tried to take pictures with my cell phone, I didn't have enough memory.  Weird, cuz I swear I recently cleared it... Oh well.  We had fun - and names got drawn for Christmas :)  Next time I plan a party, I'm doing it with more than a week in advance.

After what, I feel, was a pretty good sprint of blog posts, I've been feeling like I have nothing blog-worthy.  However, that's not too fair to anyone who checks this with any consistency.  I've started work on another scarf.  Double crochet this time.  (I need to learn the basics before I can even think of following patterns for anything!)

Also on the agenda - this Saturday, we're having a Halloween party with my mom's side of the family!  Koreen and I were thinking how we really needed to get together.  If we don't do something now, we'll have to wait until Thanksgiving to draw names for Christmas! I want more time than that, thank you.  So I've kind of thrown something together.  It won't be maybe the most well-planned as it could have been, but I still think it will be fun :)  I also designed the invitations. :D Here it is - with the pertinent info purposely blurred.

Matt and I are SO blessed. :)  Yesterday, Matt ends up with no oil in his car and a slight knocking noise - we're looking probably at $1-2,000 to fix the poor car.  Thank goodness for family discounts (thanks Dusty!)  Also yesterday, Matt was too lazy to put his ankle brace on before playing basketball and dislocated his ankle.  Oh, and we still have no money - even less so this month between not selling anything and lack of work on my end.  This is going to be a tight month.

On the plus side, Matt did finally sell something today - 2 generators.  Yay for some money!  Sigh.

I've known Google had a calendar, and I've used other computer/web calendars before, but I decided to give Google Calendar a try.  I love monthly calendars - I apparently visuallize my week best.  I've been printing monthly calendars for awhile now.  (Visualizing really helped with due dates and planning how long I could procrastinate any given assignment :) )  However, with having to set appointments and collect addresses and the like, I was thinking rescheduling would be easier in an electronic format.  So I've played with Google Calendar a bit, and now that I'm understanding it a little better, I think I'm going to thoroughly enjoy it.  I just discovered how to color-code things. :)  The appeal also lies in the fact that if I can get used to it, I won't have to carry my little folder around with my calendars since I have internet access at work, too!

So now for a recap of what went on when conference wasn't on. Saturday between sessions I hung out and listened to/watched the between stuff.  I also showered and started straightening my hair since we were doing Biggs family pictures in Payson at 5:30.  After the afternoon session, I finished getting ready, grabbed Matt's stuff (he was coming straight from work) and headed down.  After pictures, the boys all went to Preisthood and the girls hung out at home.  Jenn came in my car, and we took a Wal-mart detour :)  We looked through the Halloween decor (and didn't find anything I was looking for) so we looked for yarn and a crochet hook.  I found some cute yarn . . . and no crochet hooks.  We also found no knitting needless as we continued wandering all over the little sewing section.  The Payson Wal-mart is now getting the remodel (ha ha), so everything is all mixed up.  We finally asked a worker, and she was just putting them in the back.  She was kind enough to let me rummage around in the box they (and the missing knitting needles) were in until I found what I wanted.  After a quick look at frames, we checked out and headed to Matt's parents'. 

My mom had taught me to crochet a little a long time ago, but I failed. :) I didn't have the patience to redo rows over and over and over.... you get the idea.  I think I made a couple hot pads, and I was working on an afghan for a little while.  However, my mom had to eventually finish the afghan because I got off somewhere and was too frustrated to go back and try to find where I'd messed up.

Well, since being out of school, I've found extra time that I'm usually pretty bored with.  I like reading, but I don't always want to sit and read a book, and sometimes my house is too noisy for me to do that anyway. Facebook is only entertaining for so long, and when my TV is in use (usually the same time my house is noisy), I cannot watch it, a movie, or play a video game.  I needed something somewhat active to keep me busy.  So with this new yarn and crochet hook, Matt's mom re-showed me how to start and chain.  While the boys were at preisthood, I started on a scarf. (It's the same idea as a hot pad, only longer and way more practical for me because I already have LOTS of hot pads that I hardly use :) ).  We all chatted and hung out, then had ice cream when the boys got home as they told us what they'd learned at Preisthood session.

Sunday, since my parents were out of town, we drove down to Payson again and did our laundry at Matt's parents' while listening to sessions.  In between sessions, I started my scarf over again and made some pretty decent progress on it.  Since then, I've finished my scarf and made another:

By the Sunday afternoon session - my focus was not so good.  It didn't help that we tried to watch the session online, but the website was having issues.  We finally just listened to conference on the radio :)  I suppose it's a small blessing to those who have been reading my blog, because less focus means less impressions, which means less notes on my part :)

Elder Holland brought up an interesting point, that even good members of the church can be deceived.  He also talked about the divinity of the Book of Mormon and how its teachings can help protect against deception.  He put an interesting spin on an anti claim, that Joseph made up the Book of Mormon.  Since the text is now online, I'm going to copy some of what Elder Holland said because I think it makes an excellent point.  He just finished recounting how Hyrum (Joseph Smith's brother who was in Carthage jail with him) had finished reading a few verses from Ether to Joseph and ear-marked the page, "for which these two brothers were about to die."

"As one of a thousand elements of my own testimony of the divinity of the Book of Mormon, I submit this as yet one more evidence of its truthfulness. In this their greatest—and last—hour of need, I ask you: would these men blaspheme before God by continuing to fix their lives, their honor, and their own search for eternal salvation on a book (and by implication a church and a ministry) they had fictitiously created out of whole cloth?


"Never mind that their wives are about to be widows and their children fatherless. Never mind that their little band of followers will yet be 'houseless, friendless and homeless' and that their children will leave footprints of blood across frozen rivers and an untamed prairie floor. Never mind that legions will die and other legions live declaring in the four quarters of this earth that they know the Book of Mormon and the Church which espouses it to be true. Disregard all of that, and tell me whether in this hour of death these two men would enter the presence of their Eternal Judge quoting from and finding solace in a book which, if not the very word of God, would brand them as imposters and charlatans until the end of time? They would not do that! They were willing to die rather than deny the divine origin and the eternal truthfulness of the Book of Mormon."

For anyone wanting to read his whole talk, it can be found here.
Right, so apparently I lied about this being shorter. Oh well.  Next to speak was Elder Cook.  He taught that we should serve because God wants us to.  We are each accountable to the Savior for our own sins and actions.  He also mentioned two places we have stewardship, over ourselves and families; and over the poor and needy.  Imagine giving a report to God after your time on Earth of what and how well you did.  I also liked that he said, "Religious observance in the home is as important as providing food, clothing, and shelter."  I think that's pretty powerful.

Skipping Elder Nielson's talk about missionary work (I told you I was not so focused), Elder Renlund cautioned us not to be casual with our commitments or spiritually changed hearts. (Yes, that's all I got out of his talk, too). 

I also liked that Elder Ringwood said that an easiness and willingness to believe comes from following the small and simple things.  I've always believed that.  In fact, it sometimes bothers me when people follow the big stuff, but think the little stuff can slide.  So what if it's an extra set of earrings in your ears? Oh nothing except for the prophet said you shouldn't have them.  I think it's a true measure of one's commitment.  That sounds judgy, and it is, but I'm also going to state that I know I'm not perfect and I commit the "little" sins too.  Like swearing as a big spider runs away and startles me, or wearing a corset on Halloween.  Yep, shouldn't do those things.  Does that make my judging statement a little better? Probably not.  Oh well.  My whole point was that I totally agreed with what he taught, and if we can learn to let go of our little "pet" sins, life will be a whole lot easier in the long run.

Most of what I remember of Elder Sitati's talk was my fascination with him being from Africa.... that's horrible.  Anyway, I mostly couldn't remember a time in General Conference being taught by someone black. Other nationalities, yes, just not African.  My notes from his talk are simple, "covenants" and "extend salvation to all."  Unfortunately, I really can't put into context what "covenants" was all about without reading his talk, so this will have to suffice.

On the upside, I did apparently listen to Elder Christofferson because I have decent notes from his talk :)  He talked about moral discipline.  He mentioned that laws don't do well at controlling behavior, and the more we come to rely on laws to do so, the less civilized we are becoming.  He said that culture and traditions do better at controlling behavior.  (Here I thought how true that was as I reflected on my inability to break a simple social norm for my social psychology class. lol)  He talked about how some parents may not want to "push" religion on their children, instead letting the children decide what they want at a later date and time.  This caught my attention because I used to think that was what I would do with my own children.  (I have since changed my mind, and long before this talk.)  In regard to this concept he said that being neutral about the gospel is rejecting God and His gospel.  I don't think anyone would really want to do that if they thought about it that way.

In President Monson's closing remarks, he counselled we read and study these talks when they come out in the Ensign.  Always a good idea.  In the same vein, as I sat down to write about this last session, I'm really glad that it has taken me a few days because I think it helped me to remember what was taught, especially when trying to recount the teachings that were important to me to whomever comes across this blog.  He also counselled to daily apply the principles we learned.  I suppose you have to remember them to try that, eh? :)  Along the same lines that I've recounted in these posts, he said, "... we are all in this together and that every man, woman, and child has a part to play.  May God give us the strength and the ability and the determination to play our part well."  And since he's the prophet of God's church, I'm going to include his closing testimony, because it applies to everyone, member or not, and it's really simple and powerful. :)

"I bear my testimony to you that this work is true, that our Savior lives, and that He guides and directs His Church here upon the earth. I leave with you my witness and my testimony that God our Eternal Father lives and loves us. He is indeed our Father, and He is personal and real.


"May God bless you. May His promised peace be with you now and always."

I love you all!

Sunday morning, we headed to Matt's parents' to watch conference with them (and to do our laundry).  Due to our oh-so-timely nature, we listened to the first part of conference in the car on our way to Payson :)

Love was definitely a continuing theme this conference.  Along with reiterating what had already been said on the topic, Elder Eyring also taught how spouses should love each other and how children should love their parents.  Very helpful advice he gave (which also echoes the advice my dad gave me once) is to make the wellfare and happiness of the other central to our lives.  It's hard to be selfish or to get angry when you're trying to make the other person happy.  You also don't have to worry about looking out for your needs because your spouse is doing the same thing for you :)  Elder Eyring advised us to pray for the love to see the good in our companions and make their weaknesses seem small.

Elder Perry talked a little about our pioneer heritage, and how the same principles of the past apply today.  We should contribute to the edification of others by sharing.  We have an obligation to share the gospel.  He also posed the question, "How prepared am I to give witness of the Restoration, Plan of Salvation, and the gospel of Jesus Christ?"  A very important thing to ask ourselves if we are to bear witness of these things :)  I also liked that the Plan of Happiness is a plan for us to live, again, going back to the idea that we each have our own parts to play.

Bishop Burton talked about virtues, especially the '-ity' virtues (ie. humility, charity, integrity, etc.).  He talked about how integrity is like the mother of many virtues because someone with integrity has a firm adherence to moral values.  He cautioned that virtues must not be forgotten or set aside, or else we are weakened.  When we adhear to virtues, we break Satan's holds.

Sister Dibb told a scary story about some people working on a bridge.  Since it's short, I'm copying it here:
“Four people were killed and seven workers were rescued after clinging for more than an hour to the underside of a 125-foot-high [38-m] bridge in St. Catharines, Ontario, [Canada,] after the scaffolding they were working on collapsed” (“News Capsules,” Deseret News, June 9, 1993, A2).
She talked about how later she found out that they had safety equipment, but chose not to use it.  She then likened this to our times now - we all deal with some pretty scary stuff, whether it be financially or otherwise.  However, we all have safety equipment that it is up to us to choose, like prayer, scriptures, and prophets.

Elder Nelson talked about personal revelation, which is available to everyone.  Aside from a firm faith, deep desire, and a sincere heart, he taught that we must really intend to follow the direction given, which can be a hard thing, I think.  He also taught that personal revelation will never contradict God's doctrine.

President Monson talked about service.  I liked the father who always asked his kids at dinner, "What did you do for someone today?"  He talked about how we often get lost in the day-to-day living or we lose ourselves in the "thick of thin things."  We are surrounded by those who need us.  The Savior promised us that those who lose their lives will find it, and those who seek after their lives will find it.  In my philosophy class many moons ago, we called this the paradox of happiness.  When you stop worrying about yourself and start worrying about others, you become a lot happier.  Pres. Monson taught that it is a mandate to serve and lift up others.  It was way cute how he recounted that for his birthday last year, he had said he wanted everyone to help someone and serve someone.  This year, he received tons of letters and such of people fulfilling his birthday wish.  My absolute favorite was the jar of warm fuzzies sent by one primary.

So I fully intended to blog a snippet of what I thought and liked after each session.  I started on Saturday morning's, but I had to do things to get ready for family pictures at 5:30.  However, I decided to still blog by session - I can talk a little bit more about what I liked in each session this way.  So, now for Saturday afternoon:

Elder Oaks talked about God's love and God's law.  I like that he said we cannot be separated from God's love.  We can, of course, choose to ignore this fact, but that doesn't stop God from loving us and reaching out to us.  I really liked his application to parenthood.  Parents should model God's plan.  Love doesn't excuse us from following law.  He talked about the fine line that must be drawn when children go astray.  Can a parent love their child, but not allow the drugs their addicted to into their home (for example)?  He also reminded us that "Whom the Lord loveth, he chasteneth."  I'm sure any of you who have kids would agree that you've had to be the "bad cop" because you love your children and want to keep them safe, even though your kids may not have seen it that way.

Elder Hales talked about the true nature of God and Christ.  I thought it interesting that he mentioned Joseph didn't know Heavenly Father and Jesus when they came to him until Heavenly Father introduced them, because Joseph didn't know that God and Christ had bodies.  He made the point that we can't really come unto Christ and God unless we know them, and to know them is to know of their characteristics.  I liked that he said they feel for us too.  Again, he brought up feeling and recognizing the Spirit, along with creating an environment where he can dwell.  If we seek Christ in humility and with sincerity and diligence, we will know that He lives.

From Jorge F Zeballos - I liked that grace is available after all we can do.  I think that stood out because it's the same concept as in my favorite scripture in the Book of Mormon, Moroni 10:32-33
"Yea, come unto Christ, and be perfected in him, and deny yourselves of all ungodliness, and love God with all your might, mind and strength, then is his grace sufficient for you, that by his grace ye may be perfect in Christ; and if by the grace of God ye are perfect in Christ, ye can in nowise deny the power of God.
And again, if ye by the grace of God are perfect in Christ, and deny not his power, then are ye sanctified in Christ by the grace of God, through the shedding of the blood of Christ, which is in the covenant of the Father unto the remission of your sins, that ye become holy, without spot."

Another plain and precious truth was highlighted by Tad R Callister, that God is unchanging and He still talks to us today.  He also cautioned to not lose the many things you do know over the few things you don't.  The truths of the gospel are plain and simple.  To get lost in the scientific details and discredit something because science hasn't caught up yet would be a very sad thing, indeed.

I really liked Kent D Watson's talk.  Mostly because he helped me know that we're not in a position to buy a home right now.  He talked about temperance and patience.  Through self-mastery and control, we become stronger and better able to protect ourselves against sin.  He said that peace of mind, security, and happiness don't come from buying a home or possessions for which the debt incurred is greater than our savings. (That right there told me it's okay to live here another couple years where we know we can afford to live and even have some extra to get out of debt, rather than to buy the 95K condo that I wasn't in love with, but would guaranty the tax credit and a place of our own.  Rather, it's better to get out of some of our debt and be in a position to rely on ourselves when we buy a home, and not the government.  Not to mention, not be totally sure even with the tax credit that we'd be able to afford to live month to month.  See? Prayers ARE answered :) )

Elder Anderson again talked about love and chastisement, and how we all need to repent.  He said there are many degrees of righteousness and worthiness, and we all need repentance.  "Repentance is turning away from some things, and turning toward other things.  It is returning to God.... The Lord tells us in our minds and our hearts what we need to change.  We then are allowed to choose what we do."  I really liked that.  Oftentimes we know what we should be doing, it then becomes a matter of doing it.  He asked, "Do we pull the shades down on our window to Heaven?"  Heavenly Father and Jesus are always there, reaching out, pleading with us to change our hearts and lives and come to them.  Do we ignore them and try it our own way?  He said that repentance should be a daily thing.  As long as we are trying, we are making progress.  We may not always see it until we reach a hill and can look back at our progress.  We should never lose hope.  There is always greater happiness ahead.

Elder Packer taught that we are a part of the Plan of Happiness.  A lot of times I've heard it and viewed it as sort of the blueprint, I guess.  Never so much that I have a role within it.  I suppose it's kind of like a play.  The outline is written and we know the general outcome, but who will be where and how they get there is up to the players.  I suppose it wouldn't be right to leave out the symbolism he used.  He taught that we should invent a delete key in our minds to get rid of bad thoughts or temptations.  I've heard "hum your favorite hymn," but I liked how he said maybe your delete key would be a key word or phrase from your favorite hymn - not necessarily having to be the whole thing.  I think that would be easier to implement :)  I absolutely loved the story of the little girl whose brother made a trap to catch sparrows.  She really didn't want him to set it, but, of course, he did anyway.  So she went and prayed really hard about it.  Then she went to her house and told her mom that she knew he wouldn't catch any sparrows.  When her mom asked how she knew, she replied, "I prayed about it.....then I kicked the trap to pieces!"  What a great story! We can't expect to be given answers without first contemplating our situations and "studying them out in our minds."  I also liked that we can sustain people through prayers.  This, of course, followed by a request to pray for President Monson and his family.  All of our leaders, church and state, need our prayers to strengthen and guide them.

I woke up at 10:05, rushed to the living room, turned on the TV to watch conference.  Conference wasn't always such a great thing in my mind.  Like probably most kids, I had a hard time sitting and listening for two hours, then another two, then to repeat it on Sunday.  However, the past week or two has been really hard for various reasons, so I was quite looking forward to the spirit conference brings.

The themes I noticed from Saturday morning's session were learning to hear, recognize, and follow the Spirit.  I also know I should be reading my scriptures.  Gotta start doing that :)  I liked that Elder Scott said we can learn to be consistently guided by the Spririt.  Not only can we, but I really think we need to.  Some may have a disposition to listen and follow more easily than others, but I still think there needs to be effort on our part.

I also found some teaching points - what we should be doing with our primary class that we aren't. 

Something else that stood out to me from L. Whitney Clayton's talk was this: Burdens become Blessings.  Maybe it's because of the alliteration, but I kind of want to make a cute sign to put in my house that says that.  Love is the other major theme that was witnessed in the Saturday morning session.  I also liked that he said the Plan of Salvation is for our own growth.

We also need to have confidence in others, and of course, love.  Learning and teaching aren't optional.

I really like Elder Bednar's talks.  He always seems to spell things out very simply.  This conference was no different.  He talked about being more diligent and concerned at home by 1) expressing love and showing it.  When he said to never assume they know how much we love them, it made me think of Jeff Dunham and Walter, (is that horrible?) and how Jeff asks Walter if he's told his wife lately that he loves her.  Walter of course says no, because she knows it.  Jeff asks how.  Walter replies, "Because I smile a lot."  LOL For those of you who are completely lost, you must now go find this clip on youtube.

Ok, so I found it for you.  For this part only, scroll over to 2:23:


Right, point 2) Bear testimony and live it.  It shouldn't come as a surprise to your family what you bear testimony of on fast Sunday because they should hear it and see examples of it often.  And 3) Be consistent!  If you're a poor example, your kids won't learn well.  If you're a hypocrit, it's destructive.  It's important to be consistent in the seemingly small things.

I love President Uchtdorf, too.  He was the general authority who came to our stake conference right before he became an apostle.  He talked about love.  "Love should be our walk and our talk."  With love, obedience becomes our joy, not a burden.  He also pointed out that God doesn't need us to love Him, but we need to love God because what we love becomes our focus.  Love is the measure of our faith and motivation for our obedience.  He talked about how love is the defining characteristic of a true disciple of Christ.  If we are to become true disciples, then we must keep the commandments.  We need to prioritize.  The first commandment is to love God, and the second is to love thy neighbor.

I told you my fall background would be short-lived.  In fact, with a holiday each month, all of these will be relatively short-lived.  However, since it is officially October, I can put up my Halloween background and header! Aren't they adorable? The jack-o-lantern is another I made myself.  I think he's fun :)  My house is almost decorated as well... perhaps when I'm done I'll post some pictures.

By way of updates - I can't remember if I mentioned we put an offer on a house.  I know it's on FB... anyway.  Townhome in PG, short sale, listed at 107K.  We offered 90K, and we know the seller doesn't want to let it go for that.  However, the punk hasn't countered anything....so we're left waiting. It's so annoying.  Anyway.  At the moment, it's looking like we won't get it.  If the seller changes his mind, I guaranty it won't happen and get through the bank and everything before the November 30th deadline for the tax credit.  Where does that leave us?  Not looking at houses again until we can pay off a couple cars.  Yay for our cheap one bedroom apartment for the next 5 years! woot! (If you don't know me well enough - that last bit is dripping in sarcasm...)  Don't get me wrong - our apartment is great.  And CHEAP!  But still..... We've been here a little over two years . . . and I'm looking at another five? (assuming no kids come into the picture...) Sigh.